She had never been able to tolerate dishonesty, which she thought threatened the very heart of relationships between people. If you could not count on other people to mean what they said, or to do what they said they would do, then life could become utterly unpredictable. The fact that we could trust one another made it possible to undertake the simple tasks of life. Alexander McCall Smith
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I would like to think that I know what it feels like to be totally honest, but the truth is sometimes I don't. Other times, I do know what someone else is thinking or feeling, but I don't act on that information. Sometimes I act in a way that could be considered dishonest. If I lied to someone, I probably wouldn't tell them the truth about something else in my life.

But even if I told the truth about everything, there would always be things about me that they might not like. The only fair thing to do is to let people know if they are going to be in their lives or not because I can't live with myself if I knew someone was unhappy with me and never said anything.

Source: The Full Cupboard Of Life

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